Engaged Disconnection

I've been down here in Mexico for a month now working on Spark, spending time with Bridget, my three year old sons, Charlie and Harry and surfing. We live in Sayulita, Nayarit, just north of Puerto Vallarta. It's a little beach community of a couple of thousand people. While it's a great place to practice engaged disconnection and write Spark I have been suprised by the wave of people that have "discovered" Sayulita. It's been a bit overwhelming, lately.

When we first bought our house eight years ago you'd rarely see a gringo in town. Now there is not a day that goes by when I don't recognize somebody on the beach from Boulder, our more perminent residance. Everyone that comes down talks about the stress they are under. They all talk about wanting to disconnect for awhile. It seems that we all need that.

Yet, it's important to stay engaged in the community of your peers, friends and family, as well. Hence, I'm constantly reminded that it's an important balancing act to find a place where you can practice engaged disconnection.

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I have come to a cross road at this stage of my life My girls are grown, and on their own, my husband wnetad to *make a change* ..so we sold our home that we raised our family in, a home that I loved and had lived in for close to 26 years ..all my friends were there from childhood, to friends I made at work and then friends I made through my girls schools ..volunteering etc .and in my neighborhood, we all raised our families, so it was like leaving my extended family in my neighborhood.I quit working 18 years ago, to be a full time stay at home mom but, that job is over with now.My husbands parents fell ill, during the time we sold our house ..one of them passed away, now the other one is in an assisted living place in Calif where we are from.We made the choice to move out of state, to clear out my in laws home, and to get it ready for sale ..I've never lived out of state before .It's been very isolating being so far from family and friends .. we had met a few couples in the new *hood* nice people, but that *click* hasn't happened .we've been here a year now, our job is finished, the house is sold, and we are now moving back to Calif .not Southern this time, Northern, and have a house in escrow up there so I face the challenge of starting over again I'll be 58 next month, I don't mind telling my age LOL why lie?? ..anyway, I feel a lot younger than my 58 years, am active etc .it's lonely with out my girlfriends to pal around with ..I know I have my husband and I am grateful for him . but,I need women friends ..that share the same passions, that I do who like to be outdoors, who like to walk/hike .shopping and who are not old at heart ..people willing to *have fun* .and be active ..I guess I'll cross that road when I come to it as this will be a permanent move ..

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